Anonymous Distributor
I just heard from a friend at the North American Equipment Dealers Association (NAEDA). Our discussion centered about the large number of dealers going out of business this year. He stated what we all know is true about OPE dealers living on thin margins and the struggle to keep inventory on hand, pay wages, cover overhead, etc. He recently read that the powersports industry estimates dealer closings for 2009 could reach 1,000 by the end of the year. I told him that our company’s business analyst informed me that our company had about 365 of our OPE dealer customers go out of business this year through December 1. That’s more than one a day. He and I worry that this industry will lose valuable employees plus quite a few dealers, and they will be very difficult to replace.
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One day in ancient Greece, an acquaintance met the great philosopher Socrates and said, “Socrates, do you know what I just heard about your friend?”
“Hold on a minute,” Socrates replied. “Before telling me anything, I’d like you to pass a little test. It’s called the Triple Filter Test.”
“Triple Filter Test?” asked the man.
“That’s right,” Socrates continued. “Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you’re going to say. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?”
“No,” the man said, “actually I just heard about it and…”
“All right,” said Socrates. “So you don’t really know if it’s true or not. Now let’s try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?”
“No, on the contrary…” he said.
“So,” Socrates continued, “you want to tell me something bad about him, but you’re not certain it’s true. You may still pass the test though, because there’s one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?”
“No, not really,” the man said.
“Well,” concluded Socrates, “if what you want to tell me is neither true, nor good, nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?”
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Advice columnist Dear Abby had a wonderful saying about gossip which still rings true, “It is almost impossible to throw dirt on someone without getting a little on yourself.”
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I want to share with you a Christmas story I particularly like called “The Gold Wrapping Paper.”
Once upon a time, a man punished his 5-year-old daughter for using up the family’s only roll of expensive gold wrapping paper before Christmas.
Money was tight, so he became even more upset when on Christmas Eve, he saw that the child had used the expensive gold paper to decorate a large shoebox she had put under the Christmas tree.
Nevertheless, the next morning the little girl, filled with excitement, brought the gift box to her father and said, “This is for you, Daddy!”
As he opened the box, the father was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, now regretting how he had punished her.
But when he opened the shoebox, he found it was empty, and again his anger flared. “Don’t you know, young lady,” he said harshly, “when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside the package?”
The little girl looked up at him with sad tears rolling from her eyes, and whispered: “Daddy, it’s not empty. I blew kisses into it until it was all full.”
The father was crushed. He fell on his knees and put his arms around his precious little girl. He begged her to forgive him for his unnecessary anger.
An accident took the life of the child only a short time later. It is told that the father kept this little gold box by his bed for all the years of his life. Whenever he was discouraged or faced difficult problems, he would open the box, take out an imaginary kiss, and remember the love of this beautiful child who had put it there.
In a very real sense, each of us as human beings has been given an invisible golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, family, friends and God.
There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.
Have a wonderful holiday season with your family and friends.
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